To go or not to go
A friend of mine is invited to her ex-boyfriend’s wedding because she’s still in contact with his sisters. Her ex hurt her bad (he was such player), but she says she’s over him and in the summer she got married to someone else. So she says she moved on …
The thing is I’m trying to convince her not to go. I know deep down that she wants go to his wedding just to prove to him she’s over him or something of that sort. She says she just wants to go for the fun of it. I tell her what’s the fun of it having to see your ex getting married to another girl you dislike, because it so happens that this girl used to work with her sister and they were never fond of her.
I tell her it’s not like she’s still in contact with her ex and besides he’s not the one who invited her, his sisters did. So she’s like ask your blogger friends what the right thing to do, to go to her ex’s wedding out of respects to his sisters or not?
P.s. another thing, her husband doesn’t really know she’ll be going to her ex’s wedding … how’s he going to like that!
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February 13th, 2008 at 10:15 am
If I were her, I wouldn’t go..
She’s moved on, 9a7? and she’s married now, 9a7?
3ayal she can congratulate his sisters by phone or face to face before the wedding, then take advantage of that precious time she’d be wasting at that ex’s wedding by going out with her own husband..
I think that’s the perfect way of rubbing it in and showing that she’s truly moved on.. Khal teksha5 oo te6la3 weya her husband on their very own date night so they can have a stronger relationship and just have fun..
Plus, it’d look bad going to an ex’s wedding, if the husband ever finds out..
February 13th, 2008 at 10:30 am
I vote “no go”
Simply because even if she has moved on it’ll still hurt in different ways, if they had talked about future plans or she had them in mind then they’ll all come rushing back. Weddings have a way of bringing out deeper emotions.
The sisters shouldn’t have invited her to the wedding to start with it’s kind of mean to do so.
February 13th, 2008 at 10:48 am
Just try harder! She should NOT go!!!
February 13th, 2008 at 12:13 pm
Oh hell she should. its fun. i’d do it ;D
no one knows. whats the deal
February 13th, 2008 at 1:49 pm
I wouldn’t want an ex to be at my wedding .. (giving a guys perspective).
February 13th, 2008 at 2:30 pm
I posted about it before..
http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2007/07/29/a-do-or-a-don%e2%80%99t-4/
Ok, now when I think of it. He will probably not even see her. so why go? Unless she knows for a sure she won’t feel bad after the wedding, I say she dress up, go and dance a la “Banat Alreyadh” style.
February 13th, 2008 at 2:42 pm
not to go
February 13th, 2008 at 6:10 pm
DO NOT GO!!!
Its never going to be a good thing.. what does she have to prove to anyone? Nothing.. she is married to a good man and living her life.. just don’t waste your time!
February 13th, 2008 at 10:19 pm
she should not go , and plz tell her don`t let her husband knows anything about it plz
February 13th, 2008 at 10:48 pm
If she truly moved on then she should not hesitate and attend the wedding just like any other wedding.
And if her ex is marrying a nasty girl woudn’t it be a pleasant sight?
If I were her, I wouldn’t miss it!!!
February 13th, 2008 at 11:42 pm
Dont go
just apologize to the sisters
and stay home wayd abrak
February 14th, 2008 at 1:05 am
I also agree with Jax, the way the sisters invited her was quite bitchy of them.. shako they invite their brother’ ex to his wedding? “T3alay shoofay who he chose.. somebody who’s NOT you.”
True, revenge would be sweet to see him get committed to someone nasty, but still doesn’t hurt NOT to waste a precious hour or two (that she’d never get back) on someone who’s not worth it (la his sisters wela him)..
February 14th, 2008 at 10:04 pm
A big no
February 15th, 2008 at 3:15 pm
Nice Blog, she shouldnt goooooooo! She’s moved on and she should totally erase this guy from his life
February 17th, 2008 at 4:42 pm
thanks everyone. she didn’t go