Comments on: I’ve created a little monster

By: victor

victor — Mon, 14 Jan 2008 16:52:38 +0000

Take him to Happy Chappies in Fintas and see how they deal with the kids. All the kids will become very social and disciplend with the wright method. No beating for beating. The kids are tought to be vocal instead of physical!

By: Marzouq

Marzouq — Sat, 10 Nov 2007 09:46:09 +0000

Lol! Thats good, my demon days brought you hope! The monster is kept locked up and comes out every once in a while! lol

By: pearls

pearls — Fri, 09 Nov 2007 22:14:21 +0000

Rayboy, he’s very social when I’m around but you’re right he needs to be around more kids I’m sure that will help

This lady, lol! at least I’m not as childish as other mothers are. I didn’t pinch and pull at the ears of those kids, who bit my son, nor did I complain to the teachers about it but I ignored. But you know what I’m happy that they fought back because now he’ll know his boundaries. It brings another question, maybe the teacher doesn’t know how to handle kids at all? How can this happen!! (Nonowa, reply to this plz)

Marzouq, I’ll try to be a little more optimistic about all of this because you just gave me hope

Chika, you’re going to like this lol. now I’m punishing him by letting him sit on the naughty chair for two minutes

By: Marzouq

Marzouq — Fri, 09 Nov 2007 13:01:54 +0000

The thing is he needs to be around other kids from the beginning to become more social so this is just a phase!!

But making sure he understands its a bad things is important! You need to get that through to him! Good luck!

P.S. I was a monster of a child!

By: This Lady

This Lady — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 14:54:35 +0000

Hahaha they’re getting back at him!

*sorry* :p

By: Rayboy

Rayboy — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 12:15:59 +0000

Pearls … better would be to social him more often .. meaning get other kids at your home. Let him learn to share toys. Let him meet different adults in the family..

Things should change…

By: pearls

pearls — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 10:35:57 +0000

Enigma, a kid bit my son today. It’s his 2nd bite!

By: EniGma

EniGma — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 08:10:14 +0000

if a kid hits my own kid i’d hold him and let my kid beat the crap out of him!

it could be a phase, but he should be punished somehow. maybe his dad should talk to him.

By: This Lady

This Lady — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 13:12:37 +0000

Yeah don’t take him out of the nursery. Tara its just a phase. But still he’s obviously acting like a spoiled brat.

Maybe he’s used to attention on HIM ONLY, and now that he’s in nursery, he’s sharing the attention with other kids, so he doesn’t like it.

But show him that you don’t like what he’s doing. One thing I learned with my baby cousins and siblings is that you have to tell them what it is they’re doing wrong. I heard this thing somewhere and I taught it to my aunties. They thank me everyday for it:

When they do something wrong say : ANA MA7IBIK LAMA (for example) IT6EG IL YAHAL.

dont say MA7IBIK only. U have to say ma7ibik lama itsawi so and so.
and opposite: A7IBIK LAMA TSEER GOOD BOY.

The first one works the best, becoz they dont like to be not loved.

Hope it works!

By: pearls

pearls — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 10:43:51 +0000

eshda3wa, do you suggest I leave him at the same nursery?